Tag: inner strength

  • The Power of Focus and Intent: Cultivating Clarity in Your Life

    The Power of Focus and Intent: Cultivating Clarity in Your Life

    The Power of Focus and Intent in Your Life

    Have you ever felt scattered, pulled in multiple directions, struggling to focus on what truly matters? The ability to cultivate focus and intent is a powerful practice that can bring clarity and purpose into your life. When we consciously direct our energy toward what we desire, we open ourselves to opportunities, growth, and transformation. But what does that really mean, and how can we embrace it without falling into the trap of toxic positivity?

    Understanding the Tracker Mindset

    This week, I pulled the “Tracker” card from the Native Spirit deck by Denise Linn. The message behind this card is simple yet profound: focus your energy on one thing instead of scattering it in different directions. When you track the unseen but real stream of energy toward your desires, you align yourself with your goals and intentions.

    Trackers have the ability to concentrate so intensely that everything else fades away. What you focus on grows—when you direct your thoughts toward positivity, you naturally attract opportunities and experiences that support your journey. However, it’s also essential to acknowledge that life is complex, and shifting focus isn’t always easy, especially for those navigating trauma, anxiety, or neurodivergence.

    The Pitfalls of Simplistic Thinking

    One of the common narratives around focus and intent is the idea that “thinking positively” will always attract positive experiences. While there’s truth to the concept that our mindset influences our reality, it’s not as simple as flipping a mental switch. Life is nuanced, and telling ourselves to “just think positive” can sometimes lead to feelings of shame or self-blame when challenges arise.

    Rather than forcing positivity, consider cultivating self-compassion. If you’re struggling to focus on the good, ask yourself: What feels safe for me right now? How can I gently open myself to possibility? Instead of berating yourself for negative thoughts, try shifting your self-talk to something like, It’s okay for me to take small steps toward what I want. My worth isn’t tied to how positive my thoughts are.

    Finding Balance: Intentional Focus vs. Pressure to Perform

    The idea of focusing intently on one thing can be empowering, but for many, it may feel unrealistic. Life is full of responsibilities, and for those with anxiety or neurodivergence, single-minded focus can be particularly challenging. If that resonates with you, give yourself grace. Rather than striving for perfection, carve out small moments in your day to intentionally direct your energy toward what matters most. Even five minutes of mindful focus on a passion, goal, or relationship can create momentum over time.

    It’s not about forcing yourself into an unnatural state of focus—it’s about honoring your capacity and working within it. Let go of judgment and recognize that your journey is valid, no matter how long it takes.

    Embracing Your Path with Compassion

    Ultimately, focus and intent are about creating space for what truly matters in your life. If you feel scattered, take a deep breath. Acknowledge where you are, release the pressure of needing to “get it right,” and trust that even small steps count. You deserve to invest your energy in what fulfills you.

    What came up for you as you read this? Did anything resonate? Let’s connect in the comments—I’d love to hear your thoughts!

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    Returning to Wholeness

    Returning to Wholeness Journal Course

    A journey for survivors of childhood trauma of learning to trust and embody the TRUTH of who you’ve always been.

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    Connecting Within

    Guided meditations to help heal mind, body & soul.

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    Sacred Boundaries

    A journey of honoring heart, mind, body & soul. Boundaries are hard. This course will help you recognize what you need and how to move through the obstacles keeping you from implementing it.

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  • Empress of the Pearl: Transforming Struggles into Light

    Empress of the Pearl: Transforming Struggles into Light

    Embracing the Wisdom of the Empress of the Pearl

    The Empress of the Pearl teaches a powerful lesson about transformation. Just as a natural pearl forms through adversity, our struggles shape us into something rare and luminous. This message reminds us that challenges are not meant to break us. Instead, they help us grow into the most authentic version of ourselves.

    When we shift our focus from suffering to growth, we begin to see our experiences in a new light. Rather than feeling weighed down by hardships, we can recognize them as part of our personal and spiritual evolution. By embracing this perspective, we allow ourselves to move forward with more resilience and hope.

    The Pearl Within: Growth Through Struggle

    A pearl begins as an irritation—a grain of sand or parasite that enters an oyster. Instead of resisting, the oyster responds by coating it with layers of nacre until a beautiful pearl emerges. In the same way, our struggles can become sources of wisdom and inner strength if we allow healing to take place.

    If you’ve ever felt like life’s difficulties have left you broken or unworthy, this message is for you. You are not defined by your pain. Rather, you are shaped by how you rise from it. Your resilience, your light, and your wisdom are gifts that only you can offer to the world.

    Releasing Negativity and Embracing Light

    At times, we absorb negativity from our environment, leaving us feeling drained or burdened. However, the Empress of the Pearl invites us to release these heavy energies and focus on the light within. Through breath, mindfulness, and self-compassion, we can shed the weight of negativity and allow our soul’s radiance to shine.

    A simple practice to connect with this energy involves visualization:

    • First, close your eyes and take deep, steady breaths.
    • Then, imagine a warm, pearlescent light growing within you, wrapping around any discomfort or pain.
    • With each breath, see this light expanding, dissolving the negativity, and transforming it into peace.

    As we nurture our inner light, we create a ripple effect. Our healing not only transforms us but also touches those around us in ways we may never fully see.

    You Are Meant to Shine

    For many, believing that we have something valuable to offer can feel impossible. Yet, just like a pearl, our journey has made us uniquely radiant. Every experience, every challenge, and every moment of growth adds to the brilliance we bring into the world.

    You don’t need to be an influencer, have wealth, or hold a certain status to make an impact. Instead, simply showing up as your authentic self—embracing your journey and sharing your light—creates change. When we honor our own transformation, we inspire others to do the same.

    Take a moment to reflect: What parts of your story have helped shape your inner pearl? How can you begin to see your struggles as part of your unique brilliance?

    I’d love to hear your thoughts—share in the comments.

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    Returning to Wholeness

    Returning to Wholeness Journal Course

    A journey for survivors of childhood trauma of learning to trust and embody the TRUTH of who you’ve always been.

    Learn more
    Courageous Connections

    Connecting Within

    Guided meditations to help heal mind, body & soul.

    Learn more
    Journey to Wholeness

    Sacred Boundaries

    A journey of honoring heart, mind, body & soul. Boundaries are hard. This course will help you recognize what you need and how to move through the obstacles keeping you from implementing it.

    Learn more
  • Roar with Love: Embracing Your Power and Truth

    Roar with Love: Embracing Your Power and Truth

    The following is a direct transcript of the video.

    Welcome to this week’s message. It comes from the Rumi Oracle, Alanna Fairchild. And the message this week is “The Courage of Your Love”. This really is such a beautiful deck and it’s not getting into focus very well there. But it is a beautiful deck and just let yourself take it in. What do you notice as you look at this?

    So as you listen, if it feels comfortable for you to do so, if it’s available to you, maybe you close your eyes and allow yourself to really get comfortable and relax into whatever surface you’re on. Maybe put one hand over your heart and another hand over your belly or over your thighs letting them rest.

    The Courage of Your Love

    Love is without reason.

    Rationality is like a cane.

    Judgment needs a cane because it is blind.

    When love arrives, thought dies in its shadow.

    Love is the sunrise, while thought is only a flashing light.

    -Rumi

    So maybe even just let yourself take that in and what does it mean to you? Does it feel like it means anything to you?

    The path of freeing the heart from the effects of a fearful mind is an initiation into great power. So many lapses will happen before the heart grows strong enough to overpower old patterns and surrender without condition or equivocation. When it is ready to surrender in such a way, the heart is free and allowed to simply be. Even the mind then, finally freed from shackles and joyfully submitting to love, declares, “Let love be, in whatever way it shall be. I can bear it. I shall take refuge in it. I shall not turn away from it. I am that love!”

    You are an ancient one with a heart older than the mountains. You are being asked to free yourself from the too-small loves of the youthful heart and come to understand and accept the wisdom of your mature heart. Your mature heart is not cured with hardness or detachment, but with compassion and tenacious devotion to the cause that is most real and matters most – the quest for life of the human soul.

    Your ancient heart loves the soul and will roar like the lion of love at the wolves that would casually devour it. So trust in the courage of your heart. You are not cruel. You are not hard. You are not careless. You are passion personified. You are the lion of love. So allow yourself to be the lion, not the lamb. Stand true in your own heart. Cause trouble, make noise, be proud and be mighty. Then rest, after all after all that savage divinity, rest and restore, for day after day you shall claim your holy lands and refuse to give them up to less noble creatures. Though you survey their manipulations and attempts to claim power with compassion, you do not underestimate them or relax your vigilance. You shall not allow, for even a moment, that falsehood be vigilance. You shall not allow, for even a moment, that falsehood be accepted as truth in your heart.

    This oracle comes with particular guidance for you. You are not to give into less than you are worth, or to the shaming stories of others of our culture that would cast your regal lion nature into the falsehood of beliefs that you have no choice or power. You are not to give into the idea that you are victim and cannot free yourself from your suffering, or that you are less than any other. These are lies. These are petty deceptions so unworthy of you. Do not believe them. Roar at them until the weak glue holding them together melts under the fire of your holy breath, and they lie dismembered and powerless at your feet. Then intend that those bits and pieces in decay are lovingly returned to the Earth Mother through whom they can be used to fertilize new life.

    This oracle comes with another message for you. You have a challenge before you (or that you are now moving through), but you have what is necessary to succeed and overcome it. No matter how long it has endured, or how big you have built that challenge up to be in your mind, no matter how unsolvable the issue appears to be, there is and shall be a victory beyond it, and it is imminent. This oracle has come to you to let you know you are empowered to succeed, you have what is required within to do it, and that the time for your victory is drawing near.

    So do not give up. Instead, do the sacred honouring ritual as needed, and when you feel so inclined, open your mouth and roar love from the very depths of your being. Create a sound of truth for yourself. In that sound you will hear the mightiest one of all roaring along with you, saying, “Yes love, I am with you, and together we claim divine victory! So we roar! how we roar!”

    And just let yourself take this in. Let the energy move within, throughout, and just notice what is present. What are you feeling? Where has your mind gone? Do you notice sensations in your body? Was there anything that stood out to you that brought up a feeling, maybe a feeling of resistance or maybe a feeling of emotion?

    Let yourself just sit with this for a few moments. Even when this ends, just allow yourself to sit, to let it float through your body and notice where it moves, where it tends to hang out a little bit. And maybe afterward, get your journal out And just write whatever feels present for you.

    Thank you so much for joining me. Wishing you a beautiful week ahead filled with courage and love.